Divorce Mediator & Certified Divorce Specialist
Respectful Divorce | Tailored Guidance from A to Z | Children First | From Separation to Sustainable Co-Parenting
When people come to me, their lives are often in transition. Divorce brings emotions, uncertainty, practical challenges, and questions about the future. My role is to bring clarity, calm and direction into that process. With more than 25 years of experience in the police force, I learned how to remain steady in highly emotional and complex situations. I now bring that same composure and insight to my work as a Certified Divorce Specialist, NLP practitioner, ADHD coach and “Children Divorce Too” coach.
I don’t begin with the legal side — I begin with you as human beings
For me, divorce is not just the ending of a relationship. It requires careful emotional closure, understanding, and decisions that both partners can support. I guide you through open communication, mutual respect and practical solutions that lead to agreements which are fair, realistic and future-proof.
Children are always at the heart of the process
Children often experience a divorce differently than adults expect. I help make their feelings, concerns and wishes visible and discussable.
I offer:
I offer:
- a preventive, complimentary conversation for children
- individual coaching trajectories
- family-oriented support when needed
My aim is to ensure children feel heard, supported and safe during a period that can be confusing for them.
How I support you
• Personal divorce guidance
I offer calm, structure and professional support so that you can make clear and workable agreements — with attention to both emotional and practical aspects.
I offer calm, structure and professional support so that you can make clear and workable agreements — with attention to both emotional and practical aspects.
• Support for children
I ensure that your children have their own space and voice in the process, preventing them from feeling caught between parents.
I ensure that your children have their own space and voice in the process, preventing them from feeling caught between parents.
• Practical and financial clarity
Whether it concerns housing arrangements, finances, belongings or pensions, I provide clear and accessible insights so you can move forward with confidence.
Whether it concerns housing arrangements, finances, belongings or pensions, I provide clear and accessible insights so you can move forward with confidence.
• From partners to co-parents
I help you detach as partners and build a stable and respectful co-parenting relationship that supports your children’s wellbeing.
I help you detach as partners and build a stable and respectful co-parenting relationship that supports your children’s wellbeing.
• Your process, your pace
From the very first conversation, I offer structure and transparency. Together we create a customised process based on your needs, wishes and tempo — while keeping you in control.
From the very first conversation, I offer structure and transparency. Together we create a customised process based on your needs, wishes and tempo — while keeping you in control.
My working area
Breda, Etten-Leur, Roosendaal and Bergen op Zoom.
My preferred working language is Dutch.
My preferred working language is Dutch.
Would you like to know how I can support you?
Feel free to contact me for an introductory, no-obligation conversation. I’ll gladly think along with you and guide you toward a calm, clear and future-focused separation — for you and for your children.